I might be different from most men you have met or experienced so far. I am not a strange or peculiar man; on the contrary, I consider myself completely ordinary.For I lead a very simple life. Since childhood, I have always sought to place greater value on my inner world and to cherish the inspirations, emotions, and passions that filled my being with energy and a sense of fulfillment in life.Consequently, I have naturally learned to find and pursue my own path with complete determination, without being swayed by the opinions or judgments of others. On this path, to ensure my own happiness, I was compelled to constantly seek to discover and understand the truth—the truth of myself, the truth of the world and life, and so on. And so, life became a journey from myself to myself—a quest to discover who I am, who others are, why I have come into this life, and where I am headed. These are fundamental questions; the answers we give to them serve as provisions for our journey, while the evolved forms of those very answers constitute the subsequent destinations of that journey. A journey that expands our insight into life and ourselves leads to the discovery of wisdom hidden within many of the phenomena we all grapple with. Therefore, my approach to finding a life partner and companion for the rest of this life's journey is to look for a woman who shares similar insights and perspectives. I believe that only such a woman would be right for me, even though I know from experience that most people are preoccupied merely with the outward appearances of life—whereas the essence of life lies beyond the surface. That is why I frequently update my profile—to help you get to know me better and on a deeper level. So, please write to me only if you share a similar outlook, and kindly refrain from focusing on your physical beauty or sexual attractions and the like. I do not need a young passion - I need a real, mature union, in which there will be mutual respect, trust and care. I am looking for someone who can be not only a partner, but also a friend, a real companionI . I didn't come here for superficial matters, games, flirting, and the like. I am simply waiting for one or more letters from a woman in which she can demonstrate that she holds views similar to mine. Of course, given my relatively long time on this site and the many letters I have read so far, I don't see much chance of finding such a woman. But I remain hopeful.
Study, walking, Cooking, travel, and finally I hope you have realized that, fundamentally, my needs are very different from the typical needs of the majority of men......My Motto: Taking risks is the very sustenance of life. The more you take risks, the more alive you are. Once you realize that taking risks should stem not from despair or helplessness, but from awareness and inner consciousness, you will be filled with wonder at the sheer beauty of the possibilities that risk-taking opens up for you.
Life is its own reason for being. The moment you make someone else the reason for your existence, you have gone astray. You have not lived for yourself, nor have you truly lived your own life; you have always needed someone else to be the reason for your existence. Yet, that reason can vanish at any moment: A father will die, a mother will die, a spouse might leave for another, a business might go bankrupt. If you make anything other than yourself and your authentic being the reason for your existence, you insult yourself; you demean yourself. Do not depend on anything or anyone; remain true to yourself...Dependency means the loss of freedom. Wherever there is dependency, there is no love. Love gives you wings; dependency builds a prison around you. If you cannot be happy without another person, what you feel is not love, but need and dependency.
Dependency—and the feeling of being dependent—cannot coexist with true love or genuine devotion. A sense of dependency arises when someone subtly enslaves you, whether psychologically or spiritually. True love and devotion, however, bring freedom, not captivity.
Any relationship built on need will, sooner or later, turn into a prison. You will only know true love when you are able to be happy and whole in your solitude; only then does a relationship transform from dependency into a partnership..... As you can see, instead of listing my expectations, desires, and wishes in my profile, I often share my views and perspectives on various aspects of life. I do this in the hope that a woman with similar outlooks will be drawn to my profile. My sole aim is to find a woman who, upon reading these posts, feels a greater sense of familiarity with me.So, I eagerly await a letter from you sharing views similar to mine—allowing you to convey that beautiful sense of familiarity to me—so that our connection might then progress to a more serious stage..... I am simply looking for a woman with an introverted and deep personality, like my own.... A cultured, open-minded woman possessing such a profound inner world that it fills me with excitement and passion to dive into it. Please write to me only if you meet these criteria; otherwise, you will never receive a reply from me—you will only be wasting your time and energy.