Vanessa
- 128 lb - 58 kg
- 5'7" - 170 cm
- blonde hair
- green eyes
- I don't drink
- I don't smoke
- 04/26/1978
- taurus
- Christian
- university
- I speak English with difficulties
- I'm single
- I don't have children
Over the years, I have learned a very simple thing: life does not have to be complicated. It only becomes so when we cling to what has long been ours, or when we try to prove something to those who do not hear us. I have walked my path - sometimes straight, sometimes with its own bends - and now I appreciate in myself what I did not come to immediately: the calm confidence that I can and have the right to choose.
At twenty, I would say that I want a man who will understand me.
At thirty, I want a partner who is easy to be with.
And now I simply know: I need someone with whom I can remain myself, without any desire to hide, justify or adapt anything.
That is why I am here.
On this dating site I am looking for a man for a relationship, not for beautiful letters or random coincidences. I do not want to try, I want to meet someone who also knows what he wants. A man who has lived long enough not to be afraid of closeness, and has learned to hear not only words, but also intonations. I am not looking for dramas and games - they no longer have a place in my life.
Yes, I like flirting. But the kind that has taste - not childish jokes, but attentiveness. Not empty compliments, but a look that shows curiosity. Not intrusiveness, but an initiative that feels natural. A man who knows how to flirt like this usually knows how to live - not fussily, not chaotically, but with understanding of himself and respect for another person.
I am impressed by male stability - not only in words, but in behavior. Honesty without unnecessary heroism. The ability to be there not because it is necessary, but because you want to. The ability to share each other's world, without destroying boundaries, but on the contrary - making them more comfortable.
If you are one of those who have already gone through their stages and are not afraid of a new chapter, then perhaps we are looking in the same direction. I don't promise fireworks, but I can guarantee one thing: I am a woman who knows what she wants and never hides it behind beautiful words.
I appreciate activity and emotions: mountain descents, traveling to different countries, good literature, music, and sports that give the body lightness and clarity to thoughts.
Every year I understand more and more clearly that a relationship only makes sense when you can live at your own pace with your man, without feeling pressure or the need to prove anything. I want to meet a person with whom reciprocity arises naturally, without excessive effort and games. For me, a relationship is a place where both can relax and stop being actors.
I am impressed by men whose inner strength manifests itself calmly. Not through loud statements, but through stability, clarity of intentions and honesty in behavior. I pay attention to those who do not disappear after a few pleasant conversations, who can stay by your side even when emotions move from the stage of novelty to reality. It is important for me that a man knows how to conduct a dialogue, not avoid it.
I want a relationship where two people do not lose themselves, but on the contrary, allow each other to open up. I like it when a man can speak directly but delicately. When he is not afraid of women's emotions and does not confuse warmth with obsession. Next to such a person you feel that the relationship has support, and not just bright feelings that quickly fade away.
That is why I am looking for my love here.
On this dating site I want to find a man ready for an alliance in which there is mutual respect, equality and joint movement forward. I do not seek short stories or unstable attention - this is not about me. I want to see a man next to me who is serious about what he creates with a woman.
I do not expect impeccable behavior, but I expect honesty and consistency. I want a partner who is not afraid of his own feelings, does not run away from responsibility and is able to invest in the relationship just as much as I do. Next to such a person a woman does not try to be stronger than she needs to be - she simply becomes calmer and happier.
If you're reading this and feel like we're on the right track, maybe something really important is starting here.
