Romantic Things to Say to Her: a Guide to Romance in Your Communication

30.10.2017

Romantic words are as important as good food. Things may work out without it, but eventually it will influence both your health and your happiness.

Is Romance All That Important In Relationships?

Is romance important in love? Yes, it is. Whether you know your beloved for two weeks, a month, a year, or for ages, the importance of romance is huge. No matter how old you are, you should know she needs romance as a breath of fresh air. Of course, it is very difficult to be a romantic man these days, the days of serenades under her window and other sweet things passed long time ago.

Well, there is always a way out. People do not deny the importance of romance, even though they live in a modern society. The simplest solution to the lack of imagination in this regard can be a famous candlelight dinner. Nothing inflames young girls as much as romantic dinners do. The night filled with romance and a spirit of surprises (speaking about marriage proposals). Well, every man can arrange a romantic dinner, the key thing is that the one has to follow his heart and his most sincere feelings. Make sure that the gratitude of your beloved is worth the effort. But why romance is important after all?

Romantic Things To Say To Your Girl

Have you ever noticed that you go mute or cannot find the right word if there is an European single girl you like next to you? Perhaps, you're just shy, and feel too excited being surrounded by girls, or you just do not know what to say and how to say it. I bet, the reason is not that you are shy, but that you do not know the best way to present yourself to a lady and have no romantic things to say. Fortunately, some practice will help you work through the issues that keep you away from telling nice words and romantic things to say to a girl.

Relax

Think over your doubts. If you have problems communicating with girls (or girls that you are interested in sexually), you should think about what prevents you from saying the right things. What’s up with most romantic things to say to her? Have you forgotten it all? Do they strike fear in you? Are you worried that you say something wrong instead of most romantic things to say? Here are some tips for you to cope with stress while communicating with women.

Women are people, not goddesses. Well, some of them look like they are true goddesses, waiting for a romantic thing to say and to hear. Anyway, there is no need in putting the ladies (or someone special) on the pedestal. It is nice to think of someone in a glorified manner, but no one is perfect. Women also have their own pros and cons, and they are probably worried about the same things as men do.

Pay attention to the physical changes that are happening to you, being among ladies. Look in the mirror. I bet, you will find some clues there, which will tell that you are not ready to have a successful conversation. Your heart rate increases; your body becomes sweaty; your face blushes… If you need extra time to calm down before the talk, walk a little and take your breathing under control (just breathe in deeply and breathe out slowly).

One more thing, don’t be afraid to talk to yourself. Pick the phrase you can repeat when you feel like losing control over your emotions and your body. For example, if you are getting nervous every time you try to talk to a girl, take a timeout. Go to some quiet place and tell yourself “She's is nothing but a human being. The same person, as you are. She is nothing but a human”. As soon as you calm down, give it a shot and try to talk to her again.

Say the right things

Keep up the conversation. If you are calm enough, you can start thinking of romantic thing to say. Here is a list of things you should and should not mention in your romantic conversation.

Choose the right compliment. It will be nice if you have romantic things to say to her, but you should not make the girl feel uncomfortable. Focus on her actions and decisions, when complimenting her, rather than on physical characteristics.

• Say: “You have a great look in this outfit. I like your style”.
• Do not say: “I like these jeans, because they are tight, and make your legs look really sexy”.

Let her know that you are curious about what she likes and what she is interested in. Don’t start practicing your throw as soon as you hear that she enjoys playing frisbee. Even if you do not have a lot in common, show that you are open to her hobbies, even though you are not really interested in it. Give yourself a chance to get to know her better.

• Say: “Good job. It was a really great throw. I would be glad to hear more about the Frisbee some time” (you complimented her and gave both of you the opportunity to continue the conversation).
• Do not say: “I do not really like Frisbee, but it's cool that you play it”. Say something nice about her personality. Let her know that you enjoy spending time with her and want to know more about her. For example, comment here joke. Choose romantic things to say to a woman.
• Say: “You're so funny! I miss your jokes!”
• Do not say: “Lol! This joke is hilarious!”

If you want to seem brave and confident, try to learn some romantic things to say in French. There is no need to pretend to be a bad boy (trust me, this is not what girls are truly dreaming about).

• Say: “You are a wonderful person, and you make me happy”. You are so … (clever, sweet, beautiful, witty, sincere, kind), and I'm glad that I know you”.
• Do not say: “You mean the whole world to me”, “I will do everything for you”, “I will climb the highest mountain to prove my love for you”, “I think I fell in love with you ”,”You are my soul mate”, “We meant to be together.”

To tell the truth, most romantic things to say to her are those that come right from your heart. The sincere words and true feelings - this is what girls consider to be romantic. It is not so important whether you are an experienced Casanova or a 40-years-old-virgin, the key thing is that you speak from your heart. The exception here is sex. Even if you want to have sex with this girl sincerely, try not to mention it, unless you know each other well. This may freak her out. Besides, sex is not on the list of romantic things to say to your girlfriend, but those following this are. 

1. I like your insane unpredictability...

2. I like that you are my only one...

3. I like when you say: “You’ve made me REALLY happy.”

4. I like that you understand me more than anyone else.

5. I like your sincere sensuality and unbridled sexuality.

6. I like to be the lucky guy who won the embodiment of femininity.

7. I like that you think about me and trust in my strength...

8. I like your wild seduction...

9. I am tempted by your gently-intriguing-mysterious gaze...

10. I like your “MEOW” when you snuggle up to my shoulder...

11. I like your inspirational smile...

12. I like your shapes, you look like a nymph...

13. I like when you are gentle and playful like a kitten...

14. I like that you are the entire source of warmth and smiles...

15. I like that you want to be beautiful for me...

16. I like that you are so touching and tender with me...

17. I like that you are so diverse - from a seductive devil, when we are alone, to a flirting business lady, when I take you home after work ...

18. I like your life-giving smile...

19. I like that you know how to enjoy the silence with me...

20. I like that you are always curious about what I think...

21. I like that your aroma remains on my lips after your kisses...

22. I like that you miss me even when I am absent for one day...

23. I like the way you fall asleep on my shoulder...

24. I like that you hear the sound of my heart...

25. I like that you are so affectionate and passionate at night that it is impossible to get up and break away from you the next morning...

26. I like that we do not need to wake up early on weekends...

27. I like those feelings that arise when I caress you...

28. I like holding you in my arms...

29. I like that you give me the opportunity to feel like a gentleman...

30. I like that you are my sunny...

31. I like that you adore lying on my shoulder in the cinema...

32. I like that after the movie my clothes smell like you...

33. I like that when I dress it the next day I feel like hugging you again...

34. I like that you cook deliciously...

35. I like your soft and warm fingertips...

36. I like the touch of your softly cool hands...

37. I like your naughty nails...

38. I like that my heart is beating fast when I see you...

40. I like when you are playful and take the bet...

41. I like to surprise you and see your excited face...

42. I like that you try to surprise me in response...

43. I like that you want to be the best for me...

44. I like your crystal laughter...

45. I like when you tickle my face with your furry eyelashes...

46. I like that I become crazy when I feel your fingers touching my body...

47. I like that you made me believe in lucky eyelashes and other signs, although I'm not superstitious...

48. I like your playful bang...

49. I like that we are able to see the unusual things in ordinary ones...

50. I like that you have opened new writers and their heroes for me...

51. I like that we entered our “castle in the snow”...

52. I like that only you can kiss my hands and make me adore you even more...

53. I like that I smile waiting for you...

54. I like the way you accidentally touch me when we're at a cafe or a restaurant...

55. I like that all the happy poems are about us...

56. I like that you share my love for skating...

57. I like you passionate moaning, when I massage you with some aromatic oil...

58. I like your fire…

59. I like that you left traces of your tender paws in my soul, like a kitten...

60. I like that you appreciate and respect me...

61. I like to feel your body when we are bathing...

62. I like that you are my little princess...

63. I like that you feel comfortable in my bed...

64. I like I'm waiting for your call every evening...

65. I like that you embrace me with a loving gaze...

66. I like that you smile so happily when I give you flowers...

67. I like that you give me all your kindness...

68. I like how you touch me with your cold fingers and hide behind my back afterward...

69. I like that it is interesting for both of us to enjoy the northern sky together...

70. I like your unexpected visits...

71. I like when I take you home but I like when you stay for even more...

72. I like that there is sand left in the hourglass you gave me...

73. I like to think that we can be lovers forever and ever...

74. I like that you do not care about other people say...

75. I like the feelings when we give to each other a massage...

76. I like our frank conversations...

77. I like that you have learned to make my favorite cocktail of vermouth and cola...

78. I like that you are with me, and no extra words and promises are needed...

79. I like your opinion on many things and issues...

80. I like that you try to be erotic and seductive for me...

81. I like that you do good deeds to other people...

82. I like to read each other out loud...

83. I like to walk with you...

84. I like that you adore the space...

85. I like the way you send me a kiss at parties...

86. I like that you believe that “everything will be just GREAT!!!”...

87. I like to wake you up in the morning...

88. I like how careful you are with presents I give you...

89. I like that you adore playing with my hands and fingers...

90. I like that you call, even though you just want to hear my voice...

91. I like that you gave me the northern sky with its breathtaking white nights...

92. I like that you dream about me...

93. I like that you are attentive, tender, sexual, inventive, passionate, affectionate, and playful mistress...

94. I like that you are worried about our relationship...

95. I like that phrase: “You mean the whole world to me” is about us...

96. I like looking at your gorgeous body under the moon light...

97. I like that you are a real LADY!!! ...

98. I like that you are my soul mate...

99. I like that you have a splendid idea about everything...